In reality most women here are very prudent about their sexuality, and issues of an intimate nature are very private and discreet.
If you are genuinely looking for an honest and emotional relationship, then you must be aware of the dating culture in Thailand and the way that a Thai woman expects to be treated.
Thailand dating rituals
Everyone that has ever watched TV or known someone that has been to Thailand is aware of the sex industry here and that as a man arriving in Bangkok you are a prime target for prostitutes.
For some men, this is the reason that they hopped onto the flight here, and sleazy, illicit fun is all that they are after.
Thailand is a class society and the girls working in the bars are part of the lower class.
Any well-educated and successful Thai man knows this also and would not think of marring a girl of this status.
That said, you should at least give online dating a shot.
Lots of attractive girls are looking for a normal guy.
Girls that work in bars are for having fun in the short term and that is as far as it goes.
Both Thai men and women know this but for some strange reason many male visitors to Thailand just don't get it. Many people who have met my wife and I ask where I found such a wonderful person, well it wasn't easy. The best place to meet someone is where she works (not a bar).
Although this article is written mainly for the guys, the ladies will learn a lot of what and what not to do in public with your friends or mate of the opposite sex.
The men will also learn the real way courtship works in Thailand and why.
The vibe I get from the girls online is a frustrated one.