In the beginning, “the honeymoon” of the relationship, it’s difficult to determine what type of individual you are dating.
Ex of 5 years left me and she is now with someone else already too. She wanted to be eat friends like we were but after 5 years in a relationship with her I just simply can't turn off the feelings like she did for me. With this other bloke seeing as if he is a loser then you should feel good that she has taken a step down.
I'm sorry mate, hope I could have helped in some way for you. I think your handling the fact she is with someone else really well. But let me add that this kid is a pot head/alcoholic loser. It was a solid article & it could very well be true. I have so many girls interested in me at this point I'm just going with the flow. Your seeing that she has messed up & she wont realise it until its too make an account and im pretty sure you can lol.
I couldn't be with my ex now knowing she left for someone else, even if she came back. Id love to think thats what my ex has done & she could realise it but i just dont feel it. My ex met a guy next to her work in june & she broke up with me in august so rather than a rebound she has GIGS(grass is greener syndrome).
I would personally stay NC but that's up to you mate. She feels she is stepping up a level and sees this new guy as hers. I miss her a lot but all I can do is wait for time to take his course.
Now she's in the process of looking for an apartment for the two of them to move to, and I can only imagine she'll be paying more than her fair share of the bills when that happens, since drug dealing income is somewhat unreliable, especially when the seller is consuming his own inventory.
I want her to be happy in life, and I really feel like she's settling for way less than she could get - in part because she had her heart broken a few years back and now wants somebody she knows isn't going to leave her. I know I can't change her mind since she feels the way she feels, but is it really always best to just sit on the sidelines with your mouth shut while people screw up their lives?I tried talking to her she said nothing is going to change her mind. I found out from one of her friends she needed to see a change in me. And chances are her just sweet talked her when I didn't. She will be back on thanksgiving break and Christmas break. It is a rebound but just like my case I'm sure you just feel replaced and thrown the curb. If you feel you want to keep trying then by all means do it, but remember you will only be pushing her away right now. I know it's natural how we acted in trying to hang onto the thing we love. I have seen endless texts on how she cares for me still and loves me still and needs to see a change in me. It could be a case of just trying something new like an infatuation?During the end of our relationship I didn't show her enough attention. So that's where I fell out of play So, this guy is the exact opposite of me. But you & I must accept that they just don't have those feelings for us anymore. I just don't know if I should just brush it off and wait longer then I want too. I get you, well I hope you know what she means by seeing a change in you. It's funny how the people we cared about most are the ones that can break us the worst aswell. Have fun & live a little bro, just wish i had all your confidence haha By entering this site you declare you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to its Terms, Rules & Privacy and you understand that your use of the site's content is made at your own risk and responsibility.I want to go into some detail about this, because this is NOT just about making your ex jealous.You might see some people say that on the Web, but they would be missing the point.I won't deny that jealousy is part of what makes this work. If they just dumped you, and then you do something which makes them realize that at least on this particular issue, they have to look up to you, this will undermine their decision about breaking up with you. But that is nothing compared to the second reason this tactic works, which is much more powerful. But if you tell them that all the problems in your relationship together made you into a better boyfriend or a better girlfriend, then they stop comparing your new love interest to themselves.