Dear Korean, I'm 19 and live in the United State and very attracted to korean men such as TOP and Taeyang form big bang, Kim Bum, Kim Hyun Joong, ant etc., I thought of moving to South Korea after college.
I've been learning the language but I wonder do korean like black girls. Debbie Dear Korean, I actually have several questions, but all of them revolve around the "Blasian" relationships.
First, read the article here: The Grand Narrative I find this incredibly interesting. And until the sterotype and the expectations on both ends start to evolve, I don’t think there will be a huge change anytime soon.
There doesn’t seem to be a lot of posts in the comments from women, white or otherwise. But, I don’t think I’m far off the mark when saying this.
This – ultimately – means they have a desire to please sexually, as well.
Find yourself in a great long term relationship with a Korean woman and you can bet that she’ll be all about making you feel great.
Just look at what Dan Bloom, Korea’s foremost expert on dating Korean women, has to say about them! The fierce competition for men in Korea means that Korean women really take care of themselves – it’s almost impossible to find an “American sized” Korean woman, if you know what I mean. Of course, as men, we’re in it for more than just physical look… Anybody who accuses Korean women of being “easy” should be lead off to the asylum.
Having just gotten back from Japan, I can definitely see where Redpole Q’s characterization of Japanese girls hits its mark dead-center but, as good as Japanese women are, Korean women have some distinct advantages. Korean women have a desire to please that just isn’t matched in the West.
I’ve seen so many western men approach the typical Korean girl.
Don’t cha just wish that somewhere in the universe, there existed a simple to use guide on dating? They just sit on their side of the couch, looking at their phones, not really talking to anyone.
I know that me being African-American maybe somewhat of a disadvantage, yet I'm not like most black women, I'm not loud, "ghetto" or vicious , I enjoy watching anime, listening to Kpop / Jpop music and studying Asian cultures. (But, for the record, the third most popular post is about what the word "oppa" means -- which is another mainstay for those infatuated with Korean men.) But over the course of receiving hundreds of such questions, the Korean noticed a trend: by far, black women were dominating the number of questions about whether Korean/Asian men would find them attractive.
I don't have many black friends because they can't appreciate my unique, non-Black interests. So the Korean figured this is a good topic for a separate discussion. Was Ninja Assassin somehow much more culturally influential than people give it credit for? Or is it just that black women are more inquisitive? And on the flip side, for Korean/Asian men -- are you interested in dating a black woman? Here is the only reliable bit of research about black-Asian relationship that the Korean knows of.
If I had to put my finger on it, to ultimately answer the question, it’d be these three things listed below. A western man “should” be confident because ultimately he knows the opportunity lies with him to go get the girl. To get the guy, MOST western girls will have to go outside their comfort zone and approach the Korean guy. She will have to approach him in a very headstrong way, and most western girls would be put off by that.