Have you ever been told by your friends or loved ones that you are unapproachable?Being unapproachable means that there is something about your appearance or demeanor that turns people off.
If she's super-hot, sometimes I assume I have no chance or I'm just plain intimidated. This, by the way, is the best reason for your ego why guys aren't approaching: "I'm just so hot I'm intimidating." UNATTRACTIVE APPEARANCE One night, we were out and a girl intermittently stood up on the seat of her booth and did stripper-type dances. It's tough to approach a whirling dervish and no one could take her seriously.
And sometimes the "too drunk" girl gets approached by guys who are interested in one thing only.
Or decide they like you but then show up with a new girl the next time you see them. Oh, and I totally don’t want to scare some of you younger readers who may just be jumping into the ocean of boys and romance, but take notes!
Even though dating sucks and we don’t want to do it, we have to because how else are we gonna meet people and explore the world and settle down (if we want to). Just remember, we are all out there looking for our fish in the sea.
I bought in to the false idea that ‘men commit to women who are better; women who are achievers’ – which leads to the reality that; As women, our appeal to men in a relationship has nothing to do with how much we achieve; it has everything to do with our soul; and our heart as a woman.
It has everything to do with how kind, loyal and feminine we show up.
She mentioned in her explanation that it was because, she comes off as intimidating to men.
Once she said this, I instantly agreed, because in all honesty she is.
You have to give a guy an opening, and make yourself available.
I want my approach to appear to be well-timed, and I don't like it when I feel like I'm interrupting.
Most of the time it was because they were mean muggin’ or just plain old unpleasant, nobody wants to be around that.